learned.

lessons learned in the past few months.

1. never again will i be involved with someone of the same major/career (and while we're at it, just no more theology anything, please)

2. "you aint gotta worry about them niggas. live life, shawty, you can do without them niggas" (ignore the racial slurs.. you get the point)

3. it's my life and i need to live it for myself. no one else should run it for me and no one else decides my self worth for me.

4. never go to a club again. (okay, this might not stick)

5. a genuine friendship cannot happen after a serious intimate relationship. bottom line, end of story. don't play with fire.

6. serving/perry's is so taxing on my soul. people are assholes and feel the need to be incredibly rude and cheap. and i can't say anything about it.

7. forgive, always. (already learned, but just reinforced)

8. alcohol is not all it's cracked up to be.

9. never leave the ones who are always by my side. fight for them forever, even if it hurts, and they will do the same for me.

10. sometimes the best thing is the hardest thing to do. in the end, though, its worth it.

11. be strong, but still be vulnerable.

12. god is real. so incredibly real.